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The End of the Spank Mistress Era

Administrator — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 21:25:03 +0000

A message to all the special loves of Mistress Tara….

Our Mistress Tara passed away at the end of November from a respiratory infection. It came on quite suddenly, and after a 2 week battle in ICU, she was not able to recover. She was surrounded by her family, and knew she was loved.

I want to thank all of you for being a part of her life. Tara loved her world here with LDW… she took great pride in helping her sissies get dressed for a special occasion, the fabulous Sissy Pageant, tea parties and fantasy galore. She truly loved all of you, and the relationships that were built on calls, through emails, and in Community Kink.

Please join us in the Special Events room of Community Kink on Saturday, January 2nd from 10pm-11pm est. to celebrate the life of this amazing woman and mistress. We will be sharing some Tara stories, and helping to end her chapter.

Love,

Dispatcher Jennifer (Tara’s sister)

The Spank Mistress Includes You!

Administrator — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 04:03:16 +0000

The Madcap Tea with Milk and Cookies chat with Ms Natalie and myself continues to prosper and evolve into a growing and fun regular event. We hold it every Tuesday night at seven pm EST in the special events chatroom, and while our focus is a chat for sissies and sissy babies, we get quite a few people who share all sorts of different interests. This makes for a rich stew of personalities, and I’d go so far as to say that if you have a good sense of humor and an open mind, you will really enjoy our Tea party. Mistress Natalie both value smart chatters, we also value sweet and funny chatters, so there is a place for everyone at our tea table, or in the big living room where we all like to relax. (Picture the holodeck from Star Trek and you’ll see how we set up the perfect environment for each chat!!)

You are also welcome to call and enjoy a call with me before I head off with many of the other Mistresses on our weekend in Vegas! If you’ve been longing to give up all that anxiety and guilt that comes with coming every time you get your hand on your cock, call me and let my strength control you! You know that the Spank Mistress doesn’t believe in letting stroker boys have happy endings, and that I’ll never relent, no matter how hard you beg and plead. Wouldn’t that be a relief, to have no control, to give it all up? Wouldn’t it be delicious to hear my laughter mocking your pain? You know how to arrange it, my little wanker.

Hugs,

For a erotic phone sex session with Empress Tara, call 800-601-6975
Must be 18+ to call
Calls are $2.50 per minute with a 10 minute minimum
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Steering My Sissies toward FUN!!

Administrator — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 03:43:58 +0000

Alright, those of you who don’t adore outrageous costumes, women in the full flush of their beauty and power having major amounts of fun, gorgeous scenery, sexy men and lots of music can just get out of the pool now. Because this is a post for my wild dancing sissies who crave fabulous girlfriends to sing and share and laugh with, and for them ONLY! I saw the most incredible movie the other night, one I’ve seen only once before, and it MUST be watched for the first time with someone you can sing and share it with. No cynical naysayers allowed. The movie, of course, is MAMMA MIA and it is a blue sea and golden sun drenched bit of pure heart felt fun directed at all that makes us female and happy.

Why do I recommend this to my sissies? Because it’s fucking ABBA for one thing. If you can listen to ABBA without wanting to dress up, shake your moneymaker and laugh, then you have no female in your soul and shouldn’t be wearing those fucking panties anyway. (Caveat: those of my darlings who just love to wear panties because they love the way they feel around their cock, or because it’s so very humiliating, or because they think it will feel even better when their mistress makes them suck a big fat wanger are excluded from this little diatribe. Wear them gladly and in good health. But you should really give Mamma Mia a try anyway, because it rocks!) But those who can’t wait to see three grown women who share a long colorful past coming together to celebrate the future in their own giddy loving wild fashion, a young woman discovering her part of that past and learning how it will change her own future, and three men who have hearts as kind and souls as full of fun as any of the ladies, need to get off their asses, straighten their stockings and rent this movie right away. Hell, save yourself the trouble and BUY it and get the soundtrack while you are at it. It will save you time later. Call me when you need someone to sing karoke with, or you have your own Donna and the Dynamos costumes ready!!

Hugs,

Miss Tara

Don’t forget to check out my audio page for a sample of my voice and style, it’s right here on the blog! And you are welcome to call me anytime at 800-601-6975, toll free! Just 2.50 a minute with a ten minute minimum:)

The Spank Mistress and her Toys

Administrator — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 02:19:07 +0000

I really do have the nicest toys to play with. They present themselves to me for my amusement, knowing that they will have to play by my rules, and they are always so eager! The stroker boys who call me after reading my profile on cockcontrol, calling because even though they can’t go without touching themselves, they know that they need a strong sexy Mistress who they can depend upon to say no. No to orgasm, no matter how much they beg, no matter how painful or tearful their pleas are. I try to be kind, I offer them the chance NOT to wank, but once the blood supply is running the little brain, there is really no hope. They stroke, and then they suffer, and then The Spank Mistress laughs.

For instance, my little (m-), aka my omega male. An omega male is the lowest of the low, below Alpha and Beta and all the rest. He presents himself to me every so often because he knows I’ll push his limits and make him suffer, which turns him on. Ms Grace made me his Punishment Mistress once upon a time, and now he knows where to come when he needs to be forced into submission. He normally is very accepting of his place beneath the feet of the Ldw Ladies, but with me, he feels a need to push back, to fight, because he knows he will eventually submit to my strap on and my mastery of him as a weak male. I love hearing the cracks of his belt against his tender ass cheeks, I only wish I could be beating him myself. (m-) has been with us for several years, he was a board slut in the beginning and still whores around quite a bit, but there is only one Spank Mistress. And while he whimpers in pain, knowing that I will not allow his release either, he worships me. Such a lovely toy!!

Hugs

Public Humiliation and the Spank Mistress

Administrator — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 03:56:44 +0000

My sweet silly spanked and collared slave boy j has made yet another huge mistake. He asked me for a public humiliation assignment. Now, while I’m not a Goddess of Humiliation like Ms Elizabeth, I like the idea of humiliating a man in public. I am, however, of two minds when it comes to assignments. I do not feel it is right to impose one’s sexual fantasies on any person who has not given their consent. I have a mom and two sisters and, faced with someone presenting with some of the public fantasies I’ve discussed, they would react in three very different way. My mom would not “get” what was going on, she would just be confused and a little disturbed. One of my sisters would, like me, laugh her ass off , but my other sister would be offended, angry, and very likely frightened. She would feel assaulted. And, as I know that the last thing our gentlemen want to do is hurt someone else, even unintentionally, I hesitate to assign a public humiliation where someone might like my sister could be involved. I’m sure you all understand why.

Okay, lecture over:) My spanked, collared slaveboy wanted an assignment and I wanted to give him one. So I thought about it, asking him about his local area and trying to think of something that would be fun and just involve him. Finally, I found out that he lived very close to a local park. So I had him go into the park and hide a bag with his ball gag and his biggest butt plug inside it. He had to go at least fifteen minutes in from the parking area. Then he had to come back after dark, strip down to his shorts and collar, go find the bag and put both toys in place, then trot back to his car. When he gave me grief about wearing his collar, I nixed the shorts and my silly mouthy j ran bare assed through the park in his ball gag and butt plug! It’s not good to question the Spank Mistress!

You can imagine what fun our call was that night! Of course, I keep poor j in utter denial, I never let him come, and I spank him for every uppity thought he dares to speak. No wonder he adores me so! Wouldn’t you?

Hugs,

Miss Tara Stop and listen to my audios to learn about my style and my voice, then call me for your own magical fantasy!! 800-601-6975

Info and Events – the Spank Mistress INFORMS!

Administrator — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 03:54:25 +0000

First of all, Ms Natalie and I have a really great chat planned for our sissies and sissie babies this week! Of course, all are welcome to our popular Madcap Tea with Milk and Cookies chat , we host it every Tuesday night at seven pm in the free chatrooms. This week, we are continuing with our goal of getting to know our chatters, we’re introducing a bit of new format to give each of our teafolk a chance to share with us and shine. Make sure that you join us, we believe this is going to be a lot of fun and will be very stimulating as well. I can’t wait to see you there!

I would like to thank my sweet collared and well spanked slave boy j, who sent me a wonderful gift this week. I plan to get a lot of use out if it, and kept it in mind when I went shopping for vittles, tender cheeks! To my surprise, it arrived in the company of another box, filled with two wonderful books, and movies that I have wanted for a long time, but no packing slip! I have no idea who sent them to me, but thank you very much and I hope you will make yourself known!!

There are a lot of interesting things going on here at LDW that you really need to know about. Ms Cecilia is always thinking of new ways to make her callers happy, well, now she’s created something that is just so fine and fun, I can’t stop talking about it! She has created a TOUR of LDW for new callers, or gentlemen that are just curious about everything we have to offer. http://www.communitykink.com/community_kink_tour.html Her tours are completely free, and she will even help you choose a lady to speak with if you share your needs with her as you take the tour. Ms Celilia has put a lot of thought, hard work and caring into creating a very special service for our gentlemen, please take the tour and let her know you appreciate her!

You can find out about any scheduled events here at LDW by going to one link now: http://www.themistressshow.com Use it to keep yourself updated on all things Mistress oriented!

And last, but never least, Ms Tia interviewed me as only she could in a special one and one just a few days ago. If you missed it live, you can download it at ITunes, or listen to it HERE, along with the other interviews she has done. Come along and learn more about your favourite Spank Mistress and her friends, in my own words!

Talk to you soon!

Miss Tara

Tea with Milk and Cookies and Panties!

Administrator — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 08:05:22 +0000

Ms Natalie and I are hosting our weekly Tea with Milk and Cookies chat at seven pm on Tuesday this week, and we are pleased to announce the return of our very popular Panty Pile game! This simple game was introduced at one of our well attended Theme chats, but we have had many requests to play it again, so it will be featured at this week’s chat. The purpose of Panty Pile is to get to know our wonderful chatters a little better. So, one at a time, our chatter choose a pair of panties from our big pile, put them on and describe them to Ms Natalie and I, and all the other chatters. Then, they must honestly answer the Random Question attached to those panties, and they only know the question when Ms Natalie or I asks it! It’s like Show and Tell combined with Truth or Dare, but we don’t offer the Dare option. We had such a good time the last time we played Panty Pile, even our shyest chatters took the opportunity to step into the circle and be admired, and we LOVED getting to know our regular guest and new friends a little bit better. Everyone gets a turn, so come and play Panty Pile with us on Tuesday night, at seven pm EST, in the Special events free chatroom. Remember that our Tea chats especially welcome our sissy and adult baby guests, but we are glad to have anyone who wants to wander in for a cup of tea, some fresh cookies and a lot of fun! Come join Ms Natalie and I for a Pantylicious good time!

Hugs,

Miss Tara Enjoy the audios posted here, learn a little about my style and my voice, and then give me a call!

1-800-356-6169

Our Promise To Our Customers

Administrator — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 16:14:06 +0000

An Erotic Experience – Combined with World Class Customer Service
by Ms Ally, Owner and HeadMistress of cock Control: 800-356-6169
Updated September 23, 2009

World Class – And Erotic!

As we have built and grown our erotic telephone entertainment company over the past 7 years, one thing has become clearer to us each day: despite the fact that we’re working in the “Adult Industry”, despite the fact that many of us consider ourselves “Mistresses”, despite the fact that many of our clients come to us in search of a woman to worship and adore and share an erotic experience which is “Femdom” in nature – despite all this, there is one thing that we owe to each and every one of our callers, and that is a World Class customer service experience.

We want to make it very easy, and enjoyable, to do business with us. We want you to be able to pick up the phone and and enjoy yourself fully, and not be concerned that you might not get what you’re hoping to get, or that your billing information might not be secure. Many of the ladies who work here, including me, come from a professional background with a heavy focus on customer service and customer relations. In fact, when we interview potential Mistresses, a background in customer service is definitely something we’re hoping to find. We promise our callers the very best in customer service, and we screen new Mistresses at length to ensure that their own attitudes and beliefs on this subject are in line with the company’s dedication to making our customers happy, each and every time you visit our sites.

Our Promise To You

Here is what I, as owner and Head Mistress of this site, promise to you, my treasured customer:

A Great Call Every Time – With No Risk To You

Considering that the phone entertainment industry has grown as large and as vast as it has, and given the hundreds of services and thousands of ladies from whom you can choose to spend your hard earned money, I definitely understand that you may feel you are taking a risk calling a new service, or a new phone companion. I’d like to eliminate that risk for you. We spend many hours screening each new Mistress who comes aboard, so we’ve largely eliminated the risk through our selection process. If by chance you find yourself on a call with one of our Mistresses and it’s not quite meeting your expectations, you are more than welcome to politely terminate the call, connect yourself with our Dispatcher, and ask to speak with someone else. If the original call was within a reasonable length, there will be no charge. For instance, if you’re on the phone with a Mistress for an hour and then call back and tell us it did not go well, then we might question you a bit But if you’re on the line with her for a few minutes, and it’s just not working out, please give us the opportunity to find someone more suitable for you.

Don’t Pay For Something you Didn’t Enjoy

I never want you to pay for a call that you did not enjoy. We’re willing to work with you and do whatever it takes, to make sure that your expectations are met. We have no set cut off point after which you MUST pay for a call you didn’t enjoy – we address each situation individually, and we’ll talk with you to find out what went wrong, and what we need to do differently to make your next call right. We have offered this no-risk arrangement all along, and we’ve found that it’s rarely if ever abused by folks seeking to get a free “quickie”. As long as this continues to be the case, we will continue to offer you the opportunity to speak with a new Mistress without risking paying for a call you didn’t enjoy.

Privacy, Security and Discretion

Our billing procedures and data handling processes are PCI Compliant. This means we have designed our processes to comply with the Payment Card Industry’s stringent standards for secure credit card processing. We have benefitted from extensive consultations with security professionals to make our processes as secure as they can possibly be. In addition, in 2005, we assumed the expense of changing our call distribution system, to limit, as much as possible, the number of individuals within the company who have access to your billing information. Even as owner of the company, I cannot see your full billing information once it’s entered into our system – all information is encrypted and unviewable by anyone, from the dispatchers all the way up to the Company Owner.

The exception to this is: the ladies who joined us prior to 2005 still process their own billing, while following the PCI standards. Trish, Ashley, Dallas, Lilah, Hannah, Tia, Carmen, Grace, Cassandra and Cecilia all process your billing information prior to your call. However, if you have called our service before, and then call one of these ladies for a second call to the service, they will process the transaction without being able to see the original billing information. The only time your billing information is viewed is the first time you provide it to us. After that, it’s encrypted and unviewable. Also, if you would prefer not to provide your information directly to any of these “veteran Mistresses”, you can always call into our dispatch system to be connected to them.

In general, when you call, your information is processed by our Dispatchers, who are highly trained in secure handling of credit card data, and are familiar with our privacy policies. You may opt to request not to have your name passed along to the Mistress with whom you’re going to do your call – this is your right, and we do not mind working with you to protect your privacy in whatever way makes you comfortable.

We will only provide information about your calls to YOU. If another party calls to inquire about a transaction on a credit card statement, and the party is obviously not the person who made the call, the caller is advised that our privacy policy does not allow us to provide this information to anyone except for the original customer. To this end, we appreciate your own discretion, and your cooperation in not using a credit card that is shared with another person who may want to know what the transaction on the credit card statement statement is for. While we do not necessarily advocate “secrecy”, we understand that there are times and circumstances in which you must maintain discretion in your activities. And if you are in this situation, there are ways to do this on your own, such as the use of gift cards or mailed prepayments for calls. Please do not use a credit card that is shared with family members from whom you prefer to keep your use of the service private – it’s just dumb and risky, to be honest, and a little disrespectful to all parties involved.

Immediate Resolution of Customer Concerns

How annoying is it to send an email to an online company, only to have your inquiry go unaddressed for days, or weeks, or forever? We aim to resolve all billing and customer service issues quickly, and effectively. When you have an issue, you can receive immediate attention by calling our Dispatch Center at 800-356-6169. The dispatch center is open and staffed by a live operator 24/7, and every dispatcher is trained, authorized and empowered to resolve almost any customer issue or billing question.

If you have an issue that needs to be escalated to a manager, your call will be transfered immediately to a manager. If a manager is not immediately available to take your call, the dispatcher will email me, as well as our three other Customer Service managers (Hannah, Carmen and Tia). Whichever of us is available to address and correct your concern first, will do so.

If you’re unable to call, please email the four of us at ally@voxerotic.com – tia@ldwgroup.com – carmen@ldwgroup.com and mistresshannah@gmail.com . Briefly summarize your concern, provide as much information as possible so that we can research and resolve the issue, and let us know if you’d like us to get back to you via Email or phone.

We Love to Share

I have heard on occasion that a regular customer of the service would like to try a new Mistress, but he doesn’t want his “usual” Mistress to be offended. Here’s what we promise: with the exception of the “Veteran Mistresses”, who do process your billing and so they can, admittedly, see whom you’ve spoken with in the past – even if it were not the case that we’re great at sharing, none of the Mistresses can see, or will find out, whom you’ve spoken with. And quite frankly, none of the Mistresses really care who you choose to speak with! As long as you’re calling US, and not another service, we are happy to have you call ALL the Mistresses you’d like. You never have to choose just one, and then worry that you’ll offend her if you choose to try another. That just doesn’t happen, and you have no need to concern yourself with it (though we do recognize the concern and politeness of the gesture, but it’s not necessary.) If you are really into variety and being shared, check out our Pass the Penis site.

We Don’t Just Want Your Feedback – We Use Your Feedback

If you have a great experience with us, we want to know! And if you have an experience with us that could have been better, we want to know even more. I love to get complaints! A large part of my day each day is spent trying to find ways to improve our service. I realize that this will most likley be a never-ending effort. Things happen. And when they do, I need to know. So please complain to me. If something could be better in your experience, and you don’t tell me, I can’t make it better. And don’t worry about “getting someone in trouble.” No one gets “in trouble” around here. We just get opportunities to be made aware of an area that can be improved. We receive these opportunities through your feedback. We take your feedback and use it to improve and grow. If you’d like to rate your experience on a specific phone call, visit Rate My Call. If you have more general feedback about the sites and your overall experience with the service, visit our General Feedback Page. Or, you can always email me directly at ally@voxerotic.com . I want to know what you want. I need to know how we can get better. I need you to communicate with me as much as possible in order to accomplish this.

I appreciate that you’ve taken the time to read this letter to you, because I think it’s very important to you, and to me, that you have an understanding of what I am promising to you each time you visit our sites, and each time you pick up the phone to call us. I take this promise very seriously, and I encourage you to demand me to live up to it. I come here each day with the goal of doing just that. Thank you for the opportunity to strive to reach this goal on a daily basis.

Sincerely, Ms Ally
HeadMistress, LDW Group, Inc.

The Sissy, the Slave, and the Spank Mistress

Administrator — Sun, 13 Sep 2009 03:14:18 +0000

Such a fun week I’m having, with lots of deliciously depraved calls and callers with whom to play. It really is my idea of fun, a wide variety of fantasies presented by those trusting men and sissies who want to share them with me. Two, in fact, just last night, who are such naughty little exhibitionists that they not only want ME to know their fantasies, they want all of my readers to know too. They LOVE to “make the blog”. And, because they are so amusing, I’m granting that wish.:)

First, Sissy Vanessa who has as his goal to be the “biggest little sissy faggot” I’ve ever known. I tell her that it’s quite a challenge to set, but he certainly seems up to the job. Him? her? The name is feminine, but as I remind him, he might want to be a girl with everything in his heart, but his feeble little male self is never going to be able to manage it. Vanessa got up the courage to go to a salon recently for a nice mani and pedi! She had her toenails painted red, got a French manicure for her fingertips, and even had her legs waxed. It was so embarassing when the lady waxing her legs saw up her skirt and noticed those pretty panties! I’ll bet there was an itty bitty bulge in them, but she wouldn’t have been able to see that!! Vanessa is a whore at heart, a timid little cocksucker who wants a strong mistress to sell her services to the very roughest, and largest, of men. I’d like to dress her up and send her down on a street corner, shaking her moneymaker, for a night or two. It would be delightful to see her bent over the hood of a car or on her knees in an alley, being pronged at both ends. And what’s so lovely about it, is that Vanessa would be totally grateful for such a humiliating experience. It’s a win win goal she’s striving for, as far as I’m concerned.

And then there is J, my collared slave boy. What I always remember first about him is that he loves his collar. Second, but certainly not any less, is that spanking softens him up to anything I want from him. He has the most delightful restraints for his ankles and wrists, and I had such a good time with those, and a nice leather belt, AND the big metal wire dog cage… but I digress.:) J told me that he had been exploring our delightful forced cocksucking site this time, and that he found himself intrigued by the idea of learning to suck a dildo. So intrigued, in fact, that when I asked, he told me that he’d already bought a dildo to practice on. Such a little slut at heart, I had him strip and get on his knees, the proper sucking position, then began teaching him what to do. Do you know, he tried to ARGUE with me? Tried to change his mind, telling me that he was too scared to continue. Well, I had him get the belt. Twenty strokes on each cheek, because spanking makes him very soft and malleable. Then my collared insignificant bitch of a slave protested at the number and sassed me, asking me why I had to be “such a bitch”. Twenty five strokes and he almost got thirty! After that whipping, fifty strokes in all, he overcame his fear of the big dildo, I assure you. The cocksucking lesson was amusing and all, but I prefer humiliating and abusing my collared slaveboy, in wicked ways that he doesn’t expect. Sure, there was a cage, and yes, his restraints could all be interlocked, including the collar, but I don’t like to take the expected path:)

J has a delightful sense of humor, which appreciates my own slightly twisted and sometimes evil one, and he got a big kick out of my bending him OVER his metal wire cage. We had to unlock his ankles at first, when he forgot to bring the belt along, but I shortly had him bent over the cage, spread eagled, and locked down by both ankles and one wrist. His aching swollen cock was trapped between two wires, and ached even more when I ordered him to strap his thighs twenty times. He said that he couldn’t get a good stroke, so I was understanding. He was ordered to strap his back again. More sass, more strokes. He ended up with a good strong thirty strokes! Just got harder and more horny and there were lovely thick tears in his voice from the pain. I LOVE tears:) Then I had him locked down his collar to the cage top, commanded him to say one simple phrase, which he fucked up. Earned him a few more strokes on his already throbbing painful ass, which was the perfect lesson in obedience before I ball gagged him.

I ended the session by ordering him to stay locked down for ten minutes after we hung up and forbidding him to come for the night. My helpless little collared slaveboy, I hope he slept well. Hee hee hee.

Anyway, I DO have the most interesting callers, don’t you think? All you exhibitionists out there, call and share YOUR wild fantasies! Give me your permission to post and you might just ‘make the blog’ too!

Hugs,

Miss Tara I have a whole page of audios here, to let you hear my voice and my style. Call me at 800-356-6169

Cock radio And the Spank Mistress

Administrator — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 03:57:34 +0000

There is a lot going on with LDW and with the Spank Mistress, folks! After our long hot lazy summer, it’s time to get cracking and have some FALL FUN!! First of all, I want to let you know my radio show, The Live Experience with Miss Tara, is officially back on the CockRadio schedule! That’s right, get yourselves to our free chatrooms every Friday night at 9pm est to share The Live Experience, and then stay for Princess Heather’s Fabulous Friday Flashback show at 10 pm! Ms Hunter has her own show too, at 11pm, so Friday is now MUST LISTEN COCK RADIO NIGHT! Come and play along:)

Before we get to Fridays, however, we have a special event planned for 9-9-09! That is another magic number for Cockradio, there is a veritable MARATHON of Mistresses, each doing a fabulous ninety nine minutes on the air, all day long. Come hear your favourite mistress and discover new ladies to love, get to know your fellow chat denizens and have a lot of fun with us from, midnight to midnight, in our cockradio chatroom.

I also wanted to redirect some of you to my new profile, if you haven’t seen it, at cockcontrol! The Spank Mistress has been with LDW for some years now and I’ve had time to reconsider how much I love certain calls and the different kinds of power they offer. Well, when it comes to teasing and denial, I prefer denial. At all times. I’m really not the girl you want to call for some sweet voiced stroking instructions followed by an explosive happy ending! (that would be Ms Vivian! LOL) But if you want to be denied until you cry, no matter how hard you beg or how much tribute you offer, or how much pain you suffer… then by all means call me. I’m the mistress without mercy, I don’t yell and scream… I laugh. Somehow, that seems worse to my victims:)

Hugs