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Reality and the Spank Mistress

Administrator — Mon, 12 May 2008 09:56:38 +0000

Reality bites, for the most part. I prefer fantasy. One of the great things about being in the phone sex biz is that I meet a LOT of people who have excellent fantasy lives as well. I know I’ve rambled about the nature of fantasy and reality before, but bear with me, it’s been a while Fantasy, for instance, is such a malleable word. It can mean a very simple (to me) idea like “I want to masturbate in front of a woman who likes watching a man get off.” This, to me, seems like something that could be very doable in person as well. I’m not saying it’s not a fun fantasy, because it IS, there is something very appealing about a man willing to have a woman witness something so personal and private as stroking himself to an orgasm. But, I hope, that the man who has this fantasy will share it with his partner and get to live it out in person if he wishes.

Then there are the wild fantasies. The ones about women growing huge watermelon like breasts at a certain point of the month, or year, or when their hormones kick in, or the women themselves growing until they block out the sun and, as a giantess, can crush the men who worship them with a careless step. Fantasies about having your best woman friend there when your time comes on Death Row, of having a smartass kick ass female sheriff bust your trashy con-girl criminal ass all over the jail, insulting you all the while, because she can. These are great, but not likely to happen in real life. Does that make them any less valid or sexy or needed? Hell no. To be honest, these are my favourite types of fantasies. As I said, I have nothing against reality, but DAMN!! This kind of fantasy requires an extra level of creativity and acting – I’ve come out of some of them emotionally drained. I believe in giving my callers the best that I can, and sometimes they pull my ass through the wringer with them. And thats okay, I welcome the challenge.

And, maybe most fun, if not profitable, are the incredibly creative chatters and bloggers I’ve met because of this profession. Billy and Jemmie are Princess Grace’s pets, but they are my friends and playpals and we have a lot of fun making up outrageous scenarios in the chat rooms and on each other’s blogs (less so on mine, as I do try to keep it interesting for everyone, and our little adventures might strike some as rather wacky!!) and commenting with a fine edge of sarcasm and insult that I’ve seldom experienced with anyone but my close friends. There is a lil girly flutterbye who has captured my heart in her little jeweled wings. A certain noble shrimp, a Tiger turned cookie maven, a certain lucky bastard, and a trivia guru named magnus who just delights me with being himself…if I wasn’t open to a little weirdness and make believe, I’d never have appreciated these good folk. That would have been a damn shame.

So, with that, I’m off on my vacation. Try not to stake anyone while I’m gone, buffyBilly and remember that I’m NOT a vampire. But you can still be my minion, magnus. Have fun everyone and I’ll be back on the 21st, so get ready for a rested and ready to wrassle Miss Tara!!

Hugs

Miss Tara

Forcing the Willing? The Spankmistress is amused:)

Administrator — Sun, 16 Mar 2008 03:58:24 +0000

One of my favourite fetishes is forced bisexual, as seen on our wonderful website : Suckpatrol. The idea of making a strong unwilling man strip down and get on his knees to take a big cock into his reluctant mouth turns me on! The power, the beauty of it – seeing the visual domination of a man by another man- seeing his cock used as a tool to humiliate and degrade an inferior, and knowing that I am ultimately in charge of this whole scene? Ummm, makes my nipples hard just thinking about it. I want him to beg me to let him go, I want to see tears in his eyes as I force him to strip, as I explain just how much cock he’s going to be servicing before I’m done with him. I want to see the sublimination of his masculinity as he is compelled to become my personal cocksucking little whore. There is nothing like it, I assure you. This is fun stuff!

But there is another side to my suckpatrol callers and that is the man who makes a token resistance before willing diving onto any dick offered to him. And I can’t say that isn’t enjoyable as well, it’s just a different kind of phone sex call. Here, I am amused by how eager my little cocksuckers are, they’ve been starving for manmeat and have no need of being forced to strip down to suck, they have come to service dick and all they need is a place to open their mouths. That’s the other side of masculinity, how hungrily a man throws himself into his need and his fantasy. Men have what I’ve always called a four wheel drive urgency to their sexuality, and just because that fantasy has him on his knees and stuffed with cock, often at both ends, doesn’t mean he is any less urgent to be at it. Good for my willing “forced bi” guys too:) I think they call me and say they want to be forced to suck dick because they know they are straight, they don’t identify as sissies, and we don’t have another category for willing straight trade cocksuckers:) Not a problems, my hungry men. You just tell me what you want and I’ll deliver all the big dick and hot cum you need!

So, there is plenty of room for all kinds of fantasy in my world. Come be a part of it!! Call me at 800-356-6169 and let the fantasies begin:)

Hugs,

Ms Tara

Remember to listen to me every week on www.cockradio.com, Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6pm and Saturdays at 4pm.

The Spankmistress on TalkShoe

Administrator — Sat, 23 Feb 2008 04:57:23 +0000

And already our new toys are proving to be a lot of fun. I had the privilege of being a guest on Ms Julia’s show this evening and we had such an amazing time. We talked for an hour and it just flew by, I could have talked with her for hours. There was such a wonderful back and forth with both her and our chatters in the chatroom that goes with talkshoe, with KinkTalkRadio as we call it. LOL, we were tossing ideas around the other night and I dubbed us KKTR, the Voice of LDW on the Internet. You do know that we are bent on world domination, starting with YOUR cock, right? :wicked smile: So anyway, Ms Julia and I have history which made this even more fun. She and I spent a really great afternoon together last summer while on vacation in Florida, it turned out that we have very similar interests in books, we both read incessantly and we love to THINK about what we do here. So I knew we’d have some interesting things to discuss, I only hoped that our chatters would find them interesting as well. Of course, Ms Julia comes through with a topic like “Does having a submissive fetish make dating harder? Do you think you should only date from sites like collarme.com? Do you have a responsibility to tell a potential partner who doesn’t have an idea about your fetish that you are into being dominated right from the start?” It was a fascinating topic. We also talked about living the lifestyle as a domme, and the idea that most of our callers were not out there living their particular kink twenty four/seven, but that we, due to the calls and chatting/blogging/radio shows, actually spend more time living with fetishes. One of my favourite ideas, one that comes up whenever I mention my cleaning lady, is about having a sissy maid in person. My whole thing is that no matter how sincerely someone pledges that they only want to serve you, in any relationship both partners must be getting something out of it. A maid or slave would require supervision, instruction, punishment (especially if they were INTO being punished, because I’d have to find whatever they did wrong to earn it) and basically a hell of a lot more time than I have to give right now. I write my cleaning lady a check, leave it on the fridge and if I need to be gone, she has a key. Again, I do not doubt that anyone who offers MEANS that they want to serve me with all sincerity, but for me it wouldn’t work. Being able to leave the house and know that it taken care of is relaxing to me. Now Ms Julia has a houseboy, and having him take care of everything and pamper her is relaxing to her. The time it requires is nominal compared to the enjoyment she gets from the relationship. I think that’s great, I totally respect her for it, it might be fun. I love that two mistresses, who have so much in common, can have such different lives. That goes for all of us! No wonder our many phone sex callers can find the lady of their dreams on our sites, we have infinite variety.

Ms Julia, thank you so much. I adored being on your show and I hope you will join me when I have my own talkshoe experience. It’s a fun, intimate “just us girlfriends” experience that we just happened to share with a TON of listeners. And they seemed to be digging it too, which is great because, after all, that’s the POINT!! LOL.

Hugs,

Miss Tara

Remember to tune into www.cockradio.com every week to hear me LIVE on Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6pm and Saturdays at 4pm, EST.

The Spank Mistress and her Great Callers

Administrator — Fri, 22 Feb 2008 04:57:58 +0000

I really do have some wonderfully imaginative callers. And then there are some that are just so much fun, they make me laugh until I get all teary.Â One of my recent ladies has been a sweet very busty sissyÂ gal named Krystal who is the headlining stripper at a very exclusive gentleman’s club. But stripping is just her loss leader, her advertising so to speak. Because after her last show of the night, Krystal joins a private party of gentlemen for an intimate evening together, for up to a hundred thousand dollars!! Krystal is VERY choosy when it comes to her appearance, she has to be, and while she has offered me a chance to join her private parties, I am happy to remain her costume designer and chief dresser. She prefers clear neutral colours for her elaborate costumes: black, white, red, pinkÂ and silver, so creating her unique “look” can be a challenge, but it’s one that I adore. From exquisitely delicate and decorated high heels, toÂ fine silken stockings, jeweled ribbon garters and undergarments ofÂ satin and misty lace. I love to design velvet and satin strapless gowns, spangled and sequined, some slit to the hip and some with frothing skirts of silk chiffon, and there are always shoulder length satin gloves to coordinate with the dress and shoes. Then, like iced frosting, jewels!! At least three brilliant rings on each hand, bracelets on each wrist, sparkling earrings cascading to tickle those bare alabaster shoulders, and maybe a threadlike chain of some precious metal dangling a diamond icicle into that fabulous cleavage. Hair can be piled in waves and curls with jeweled pins and flowers, or loose and flowing to her sassyÂ hips, and I love to wrap her in luxurious floor length furs for a dramatic entrance. Most important, her dramatic makeup is key. With her elaborate dress, Krystal’s make up must be simple and focused around one feature, her luscious lips. Lip liner, and then coat after coat of clear red lipstick, makes her lips creamy and dewy, like a rose petal . I even have her carry a tiny bag online with a lipstick and little mirror, to flirt over her shoulder and drive the men crazy when she stops mid performance to reapply it, as if they weren’t even there.

Krystal is extremely enjoyable for a mistress like me. One of my favourite aspects of phone sex is this kind of detailed fantasy, one where I can let my creative side go wild (at heart, I’m a frustrated designer who envies those no talent bitches on Project Runway with all my little black cinder of a heart) and really relax and play with my caller. Krystal is adorable and I just can’t wait to talk to her again!!!

Hugs,

Miss Tara

Remember to tune intoÂ www.cockradio.com every week to hear me LIVE and participate inÂ my show. Wed and Thurs at 6pm and SaturdayÂ at 4pmÂ !!Â

Sexual Secrets and the SpankMistress

Administrator — Tue, 06 Nov 2007 04:36:14 +0000

Men, are your sexual secrets really so deliciously dirty that you are afraid to tell even the finely trained and well experienced Mistresses of LDW? Are you afraid that telling me that you long to suck a big thick black cock is going to make me faint? Perhaps you picture me shrieking and hanging up in horror if you share your desire to be tied to my big soft bed with my wide white ribbons and teased sweetly and mercilessly until you have edged a dozen times and you are whimpering with the need to cum. Am I making fun of you? No, my darlin’ chitlins, but I am teasing you a little for being such shy phone sex wanker boys. I get more men calling me and being afraid not only to share their fantasies, but even where they found us, “on the internet”. ::gentle amused smile::

I’m NOT picking on you, sissies and cuckolds and painsluts and stroker boys. I KNOW, I promise you I do, how hard it is to tell a perfect stranger your darkest, most intimate desires.Â Especially if you have never called a phone sex service like ours, where we have so many experienced ladies who can understand and translate those fantasies into shuddering orgasms! But you have to understand, the fear you have that may come from being afraid to tell your lover isn’t needed here. We aren’t in that kind of a relationship, we aren’t going to judge you or laugh at you (unless you are into that ::wink::) or think there is something “wrong” with you for wanting to be naked on the floor with a feather in your ass while whistling Yankee Doodle and kissing our shoes now and then.Â With us, you can be sure that the Mistress you contact WANTS you to have a great call, and if she doesn’t think she can provide it, she’s going to tell you who can. Gladly:)

So, no more shy John Boy Walston stammering, okay boys? Or, stammer if you like, it can be very endearing. But TELL us what you want and you’ll get it that much more easily. And if you ever have any doubt about a lady, drop her a nice respectful email outlining your fantasy and asking her if she would enjoy it too. Several men have done this with me and I find it to be both charming and so thoughtful.

Hugs,

Miss Tara

Perverted Elves and Pets I have known

Administrator — Mon, 29 Oct 2007 15:20:03 +0000

There was a very special birthday this week, one that I was pleased to help celebrate with a joint spanking that left the birthday bear’s butt blushing a baboon red. I am speaking, of course, of the Perverted Elf, the MostHolyProphet, that sadfaced lil blue fuzzball, BillyBear. Who the hell is BillyBear, you may ask? He is one of Princess Grace’s prize pets! That’s right, le pet de Princesse Grace:) So why the hell am I blogging about the twisted genius behind BillyBear Labs Inc? I adore that little fucker.

Seriously. Now, since I started doing my radio show, I don’t hang out in the chatrooms as much as I was for a while, and I need to change that, because I had a blast. Part of the reason was my beloved Jemmie (even if she is now an alien preying mantis with cuhreepee feelers), a very sweet sissy with aÂ heart of gold and a deliciously spankable bottom, plus bodacious bouncing evil bimbo boobs. Another part was Billy. Billy is…well…I’m not he can be defined as such, except that denial is NEVER good for Billy. Grace warned me about that one night after he got mouthy with me and I told him to refrain from coming for the good of his soul. It’s a good thing he met Princess Grace, whom he calls and worships, because she seems to understand his twisted sexual needs. I tend to just haul him over my knee, shave the fur off his ass, and spank him when he gets on my nerves. And, of course, there is the Tazer of Terrible Tenderness for when he really gets rowdy. ::wink::

He has one of the vivid imaginations and talent for interesting writing that I’ve ever seen. The chatrooms would rock from the wild horseplay going on, as various regulars were drawn into our wild little world and found their own places in it. Ace, Ms Kate’s devotee and Wealthy Cookie Maven, Lucky Pet (who collects spare change or something, I never got that quite clear), Panty Sue, ultra pampered glamour girl of the set, and tonydshrimp, who came sizzling into the chatroom one night and whetted our appetites for more:) There have been long interweaving adventures lived out between Billy’s Blog and Jemmie’s Blog and..well, everyone’s blog at one point! And their creativity has often sparked my own when I was afraid it had run dry, as well as making me laugh until the tears came at some of the antics, and comments, in the blogs.

So why does a professional phone sex Mistress pay so much attention to someone who, admittedly, is fascinated and faithful to one of my coworkers? Well, for one, I consider him a friend, as I do many of our chatroom regulars. Billy, who transmogrified himself ala Calvin into a pudgy blue Carebear some time ago, has recommended me many times to new chatters wanting to learn about the Mistresses, but that isn’t the only reason I love to have him around. He and Jemmie and our other regulars help make the chatrooms a fun place for everyone to be. Their blogs can be wild and wacky, but the focus is usually the ladies of LDW, when it isn’t specifically Princess Grace, or each other. The COMMENTS are often the best part, and I recommend going back over the archives if you want some choice reading.

So, in my usual roundabout way, happy birthday, dear little Carebear. I hope your ass stops stinging from the enthusiastic beating the Spank Mistress and the Stroke Mistress gave you and that this year is filled with creativity and less pain than the last.

Hugs,

Miss Tara