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		<title>Cock Control and the Spank Mistress</title>
		<link>http://www.kinkyroleplay.com/2009/06/cock-control-and-the-spank-mistress/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 03:55:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I believe that it is common knowledge, in the free chatrooms at least, that Miss Tara doesn&#8217;t believe in happy endings. My favourite part of the whole orgasm denial game is DENIAL and I&#8217;ve never made a secret of it. In fact, Ms Heather was gracious enough to allow me to alter her Fabulous Friday Night [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe that it is common knowledge, in the <a href="http://www.communitykink.com">free chatrooms </a>at least, that Miss Tara doesn&#8217;t believe in happy endings. My favourite part of the whole orgasm denial game is DENIAL and I&#8217;ve never made a secret of it. In fact, <a href="http://www.teasechat.com">Ms Heather </a>was gracious enough to allow me to alter her Fabulous Friday Night Flashback Trivia game from  &#8220;guess the answer and get to stroke&#8221; to &#8220;guess the answer BEFORE the Mistresses and get to stroke&#8221;.  Team Stroker and Team Denial battle it out most Fridays, with trash talking and much teasing, but I LOVE hearing the official call &#8220;DENIED!!&#8221;  Especially when I&#8217;ve answered the question and done the denying personally.  Miss Tara  Just Says NO to boy cummies.</p>
<p>LOL, what a thing to be known for. But it&#8217;s true. <a href="http://www.strokeforme.com">Guided Masturbation </a>is a great thing, and we have a lot of wonderful Mistresses who can make their callers scream with joy when they finally get release, after a long slow aching stroke session.  <a href="http://www.femdomain.com">Ms Vivian</a>, for example,  is the Empress of Happy Endings. She loves to hear a man come and she knows just what buttons to push, being an experienced and very sexy MILF. I applaud these ladies and admire their skills. But I have other talents.</p>
<p>I like a man to suffer. I have no interest in guiding him down some <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com">wanker</a> path, with elaborate techniques for handling himself. I want him to get to the edge and fight for control, to sit there with aching full balls and a swollen throbbing cock. I laugh when they beg and I coo with false sympathy when they cry. I advise them to stop stroking, then scold them when they don&#8217;t and end up in pain and weeping for release.  Those cold wet washcloths work wonders, sad little stroker sluts!!</p>
<p>Men know that if they want to speak to me again, they will play by my rules.  You can try to soften me up with tribute or presents, but it won&#8217;t matter. And as for those who ask  &#8220;what if I come accidently, Miss Tara?&#8221;, I have only one answer. If you do, there will be penalties. Of course, you can ignore them, but you&#8217;ll never have the same intense denial experience with me again. I don&#8217;t do calls with disobedient men.</p>
<p>So if you crave denial with a mistress who will never give in, no matter how much you beg, or cry, or pay, then call me.  You will never forget it.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.voxerotic.com">Miss Tara   </a>check out my audio page right here on the blog!!!   800-356-6169 for personal attention now</p>
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		<title>Snippets from the Spankmistress</title>
		<link>http://www.kinkyroleplay.com/2008/10/288/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 03:57:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Our chatters and callers are the luckiest people in the world, especially this month!! We have caught fire this month and October is shaping up to be just PACKED with fun for our callers and chatters. Have you been in the free chatrooms lately?  The Mistresses are out in full force, and I have to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our chatters and callers are the luckiest people in the world, especially this month!! We have caught fire this month and October is shaping up to be just PACKED with fun for our callers and chatters. Have you been in the <a href="http://www.communitykink.com">free chatrooms </a>lately?  The Mistresses are out in full force, and I have to say, I&#8217;m having a blast connecting with new chatters and reconnecting with some folks I haven&#8217;t had time to just sit and BS with for a while. I&#8217;ve said right along that we get the best visitors to our sites, callers AND chatters, and it has been proven right time and time again. I LIKE the people I&#8217;m hanging out with in the chatrooms. I LIKE my callers. Smart and funny folks who keep me on my toes from minute to minute.</p>
<p>A special shout out to <a href="http://www.fetishphonesexblog.com/">Ms Natalie</a>, who came to me earlier this year and asked me if I would like to cohost a chat with her. Our Madcap Tea with Milk and Cookies chat on Tuesday nights at seven pm has been well attended by regulars and new folks looking for fun.  We set it up to be especially friendly for <a href="http://www.sissyschool.com">sissies</a> and sissy babies, who have not had a regular place until now, and only a few mistresses who share their enthusiasm for the AB lifestyle. Mommy Natalie has such an easy natural way with her babies that even the Spankmistress has found a bit of a soft spot for them, thus Auntie Tara makes the occasional appearance. But I don&#8217;t do diapers:) Please do join us each Tuesday, we have chatters whose interests are vast and varied, it makes for fast and lively conversation and I couldn&#8217;t ask for a better cohostess than our <a href="http://www.fetishphonesexblog.com/">Ms Natalie</a>!!</p>
<p>Hugs,</p>
<p><a href="http://www.voxerotic.com">Miss Tara </a>800-356-6169  Just 2.50 a minute with a ten minute minimum&#8230;remember that when you have listened to my choice audio collection right here on this page!!</p>
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		<title>Miss Vivian, Tears, and the Spankmistress</title>
		<link>http://www.kinkyroleplay.com/2008/07/miss-vivian-tears-and-the-spankmistress/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 22:39:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Miss Vivian has really good ideas. This week, she came up with one that I found very intriguing. Several Mistresses, each offering her own thoughts on the same subject, on the same day. Today is that day and the topic is Tears.  That is a great topic, tears are so often part of the best [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Miss Vivian has really good ideas. This week, she came up with one that I found very intriguing. Several Mistresses, each offering her own thoughts on the same subject, on the same day. Today is that day and the topic is Tears.  That is a great topic, tears are so often part of the best <a href="http://www.voxerotic.com">phone sex </a>calls.  There is a technical term, <span style="font-family: Verdana;">Dacryphilia, which roughly translates into gaining sexual pleasure from tears, from crying. And there are certainly a lot of callers who seem to experience this. I wonder if it means the same thing for the person who gains pleasure from crying and the Mistress who savours making her callers cry. Because I&#8217;m one of them. I love it when I have a <a href="http://www.phonehumiliation.com">humiliation</a> slut on the phone, when I&#8217;m mocking his teeny weeny pathetic tool, and he breaks down, begging me to stop being so cruel. It just makes me laugh harder, and gives me that delicious feeling way down in my naughty pleasure places. Or when I have some loser <a href="http://www.cuckoldfantasies.com">cuckold</a> telling me all about how his wife can&#8217;t get enough of her big stud and he cries when I tell him just how good a really big cock feels to a woman, how there&#8217;s no way he could ever measure up and should just get used to juicy cream pie for pussy. It just makes me want to giggle and say &#8220;Cry, you little bitch! Cry some more!&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana;">Not to say that bringing a big strong guy to tears through physical pain doesn&#8217;t have its delights. I once brought a man to his knees in agony on the webcam, just by working his nipples with clamps, over and over. It was delicious. Painsluts turn me on, when their faces are as red as their whipped asses and they are crushing their balls while tears trickle down their cheeks. Is it wrong that this amuses me so? If it&#8217;s wrong, as the saying goes, then I don&#8217;t want to be right!!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana;">Until next time, this was a fabulous idea!! Now go read what everyone else has to say about tears. I know I&#8217;m going too!!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana;">Hugs,</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><a href="http://www.voxerotic.com">Miss Tara  </a>1-800-356-6169</span></p>
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		<title>Reality and the Spank Mistress</title>
		<link>http://www.kinkyroleplay.com/2008/05/reality-and-the-spank-mistress/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 09:56:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Reality bites, for the most part. I prefer fantasy. One of the great things about being in the phone sex biz is that I meet a LOT of people who have excellent fantasy lives as well.  I know I&#8217;ve rambled about the nature of fantasy and reality before, but bear with me, it&#8217;s been a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reality bites, for the most part. I prefer fantasy. One of the great things about being in the <a href="http://www.voxerotic.com">phone sex </a>biz is that I meet a LOT of people who have excellent fantasy lives as well.  I know I&#8217;ve rambled about the nature of fantasy and reality before, but bear with me, it&#8217;s been a while <img src='http://www.kinkyroleplay.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Fantasy, for instance, is such a malleable word. It can mean a very simple (to me) idea like &#8220;I want to <a href="http://www.strokeforme.com">masturbate</a> in front of a woman who likes watching a man get off.&#8221; This, to me, seems like something that could be very doable in person as well. I&#8217;m not saying it&#8217;s not a fun fantasy, because it IS,  there is something very appealing about a man willing to have a woman witness something so personal and private as stroking himself to an orgasm.  But, I hope, that the man who has this fantasy will share it with his partner and get to live it out in person if he wishes.</p>
<p>Then there are the wild fantasies. The ones about women growing huge watermelon like breasts at a certain point of the month, or year, or when their hormones kick in, or the women themselves growing until they block out the sun and, as a <a href="http://www.giantessisland.com">giantess</a>, can crush the men who worship them with a careless step. Fantasies about having your best woman friend there when your time comes on Death Row, of having a smartass kick ass female sheriff bust your trashy con-girl criminal ass all over the jail, insulting you all the while, because she can.  These are great, but not likely to happen in real life. Does that make them any less valid or sexy or needed? Hell no. To be honest, these are my favourite types of fantasies. As I said, I have nothing against reality, but DAMN!! This kind of fantasy requires an extra level of creativity and acting &#8211; I&#8217;ve come out of some of them emotionally drained. I believe in giving my callers the best that I can, and sometimes they pull my ass through the wringer with them. And thats okay, I welcome the challenge.</p>
<p>And, maybe most fun, if not profitable, are the incredibly creative chatters and bloggers I&#8217;ve met because of this profession. Billy and Jemmie are Princess Grace&#8217;s pets, but they are my friends and playpals and we have a lot of fun making up outrageous scenarios in the <a href="http://www.communitykink.com">chat rooms </a>and on each other&#8217;s blogs (less so on mine, as I do try to keep it interesting for everyone, and our little adventures might strike some as rather wacky!!) and commenting with a fine edge of sarcasm and insult that I&#8217;ve seldom experienced with anyone but my close friends. There is a lil girly flutterbye who has captured my heart in her little jeweled wings. A certain noble shrimp, a Tiger turned cookie maven, a certain lucky bastard, and a trivia guru named magnus who just delights me with being himself&#8230;if I wasn&#8217;t open to a little weirdness and make believe, I&#8217;d never have appreciated these good folk. That would have been a damn shame.</p>
<p>So, with that, I&#8217;m off on my vacation. Try not to stake anyone while I&#8217;m gone, buffyBilly and remember that I&#8217;m NOT a vampire. But you can still be my minion, magnus. Have fun everyone and I&#8217;ll be back on the 21st, so get ready for a rested and ready to wrassle Miss Tara!!</p>
<p>Hugs</p>
<p>Miss Tara</p>
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		<title>Indulgence and the Spankmistress</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Apr 2008 02:28:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Indulgence is a wonderful word. There are so many ways to indulge, and I love most of them! Some are obvious, like a box of Godiva truffles or a bottle of my favourite perfume. Time can be an indulgence, when I deliberately shut off my phone no matter what, because I have plans with a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Indulgence is a wonderful word. There are so many ways to indulge, and I love most of them! Some are obvious, like a box of Godiva truffles or a bottle of my favourite perfume. Time can be an indulgence, when I deliberately shut off my phone no matter what, because I have plans with a friend and those plans are important to me.  Dinner out with them, watching a movie upstairs, or driving around in the rain running little errands like we did yesterday, it made me so happy.  An indulgence doesn&#8217;t have to be expensive! One of the things I love most in this life is the pleasure of having a new book to read, and when somone picks out a few books from my wishlist as a surprise &#8211; I just go nuts:) Better than  a big old diamond ring, I tell you. (should I admit that? Will the women of the world disown me? Alas, tis true and they&#8217;ll have to live with it!)  A lot of people would consider my cleaning lady, the Incredible Debbie, an indulgence, but she&#8217;s really a necessity.  The indulgence comes in when I pull back the covers and see those nice fresh smooth sheets- they are cool and soft from many washings and I just snuggle in to enjoy them. Simple indulgences are sometimes the nicest ones of all.</p>
<p>I realize that calling a <a href="http://www.voxerotic.com">phone sex </a>line can be a major indulgence for many men. We all have our bills to pay and certain things feel like luxuries, instead of neccessities. But I&#8217;ll give you my take on it and this is sincere. When things are hard in the world, so to speak, that is when we need SOME of our familiar comforts most! The stress relief of a good stern <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com">orgasm denial </a>session or a <a href="http://www.strokeforme.com">guided masturbation </a>call can make all the difference when someone is feeling the pressure that can be life nowadays. Having a chance to break out the panties and high heels and indulge in some <a href="http://www.sissyschool.com">sissy</a> girl talk can turn a week that is just demanding too much into one that is easier to handle.  I&#8217;m  on a messageboard with some really great women and we were discussing jobs and work and the economy &#8211; one of the women said something really smart. She said, &#8220;When things are bad, that little thing that makes us feel good becomes even more important, even if it is only a cigarette, a candy bar or a quick phone sex call&#8221;.  For me, when I feel really bad, when what I call &#8220;the malaise&#8221; is upon me, I head for a hot bath with aromatherapy oils, and I soak for HOURS.</p>
<p>So, indulgences are not bad things, no matter what people tell you.  That little luxury may be what is keeping you sane in a crazy world!! So give yourself permission to call the Mistress of your choice and to enjoy the fuck out of that call. That is an order directly from the Spank Mistress!!</p>
<p>Hugs,</p>
<p>Miss Tara</p>
<p>remember to listen to my radio show at <a href="http://www.cockradio.com/">http://www.cockradio.com/</a> every Wednesday and Thursday night at 6pm and Saturdays at 4pm est. And, do go visit my wishlist, I have a vacation with the other ladies coming up and I NEED some great books to read. So&#8230;indulge me? LOL!!</p>
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		<title>This and That (the Spankmistress in Random mode)</title>
		<link>http://www.kinkyroleplay.com/2008/03/this-and-that-the-spankmistress-in-random-mode/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Mar 2008 04:58:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Hey there, sweet peas.  First on the agenda tonight is a note from our beloved leader, Ms Ally. She&#8217;s developed yet another wonderful free interactive for our wonderful callers/chatters. So: sissies, strokers, cuckolds, teenyweenies, babies and blocked cocks of all kinds, there is an LDW newsletter available now, just for you!! To register for it, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey there, sweet peas.  First on the agenda tonight is a note from our beloved leader, Ms Ally. She&#8217;s developed yet another wonderful free interactive for our wonderful callers/chatters. So: sissies, strokers, cuckolds, teenyweenies, babies and blocked cocks of all kinds, there is an LDW newsletter available now, just for you!! To register for it, go to <a href="http://www.thekinktimes.com">www.thekinktimes.com</a> and enter the required info.  The newsletter is going to be full of informative articles and specials, plus mistress contact information &#8211; all in one place and right there at your fingertips!</p>
<p>I had such a good time doing my show on cockradio this afternoon! I was full of energy, I had a great crew in the chatroom (including the fabulous <a href="http://thedicktator.com/cocklock/">Ms Cassandra </a>for most of the time &#8211; have I mentioned how much I love having her there and how GREAT we are as a two mistress phone team? Because we just toss that conversational ball back and forth effortlessly, sometimes it&#8217;s one of her regular callers and sometimes it&#8217;s one of mine. At the end, they have usually found a new devotion to US, lol!!) Plus, I&#8217;ve been downloading some wonderful music lately, completely paid for and legal of course, and that makes the music segments more of a blast for me. Plus, I remembered a little thing my sweet bug Jemmie told me and when I got a little frustrated with the occasional rude chatter, I just took a deep breath and SANG, which always makes me feel better. Sang on the air. Torturing every living soul listening to my&#8230; I mean, enchanting my devoted listeners with my dulcet tones. They love to hear me sing. Really they do!! ::wicked grin::</p>
<p>What kind of calls are you looking to do? Have any of you out there ever had a wild fantasy that you WISH I would talk about, that I&#8217;ve never mentioned but you wish we could do together? I&#8217;m really open minded, why not email me about it? Or even better- CALL?</p>
<p>hugs</p>
<p>Miss Tara</p>
<p>remember to listen to me weekly LIVE on <a href="http://www.cockradio.com/">www.cockradio.com</a>, Wed and Thurs at 6-8pm and Sat from 4-6pm est!!</p>
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		<title>The Spankmistress on TalkShoe</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Feb 2008 04:57:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>And already our new toys are proving to be a lot of fun.  I had the privilege of being a guest on Ms Julia&#8217;s show this evening and we had such an amazing time. We talked for an hour and it just flew by, I could have talked with her for hours. There was such [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And already our new toys are proving to be a lot of fun.  I had the privilege of being a guest on Ms Julia&#8217;s show this evening and we had such an amazing time. We talked for an hour and it just flew by, I could have talked with her for hours. There was such a wonderful back and forth with both her and our chatters in the chatroom that goes with talkshoe, with KinkTalkRadio as we call it. LOL, we were tossing ideas around the other night and I dubbed us KKTR, the Voice of LDW on the Internet. You do know that we are bent on world domination, starting with YOUR <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com">cock</a>, right? :wicked smile:  So anyway, Ms Julia and I have history which made this even more fun. She and I spent a really great afternoon together last summer while on vacation in Florida, it turned out that we have very similar interests in books, we both read incessantly and we love to THINK about what we do here. So I knew we&#8217;d have some interesting things to discuss, I only hoped that our chatters would find them interesting as well. Of course, Ms Julia comes through with a topic like &#8220;Does having a submissive fetish make dating harder? Do you think you should only date from sites like collarme.com? Do you have a responsibility to tell a potential partner who doesn&#8217;t have an idea about your fetish that you are into being dominated right from the start?&#8221; It was a fascinating topic. We also talked about living the lifestyle as a domme, and the idea that most of our callers were not out there living their particular kink twenty four/seven, but that we, due to the calls and chatting/blogging/radio shows, actually spend more time living with fetishes. One of my favourite ideas, one that comes up whenever I mention my cleaning lady, is about having a <a href="http://www.sissyschool.com">sissy</a> maid in person. My whole thing is that no matter how sincerely someone pledges that they only want to serve you, in any relationship both partners must be getting something out of it. A maid or slave would require supervision, instruction, punishment (especially if they were INTO being punished, because I&#8217;d have to find whatever they did wrong to earn it) and basically a hell of a lot more time than I have to give right now. I write my cleaning lady a check, leave it on the fridge and if I need to be gone, she has a key. Again, I do not doubt that anyone who offers MEANS that they want to serve me with all sincerity, but for me it wouldn&#8217;t work. Being able to leave the house and know that it taken care of is relaxing to me. Now Ms Julia has a houseboy, and having him take care of everything and pamper her is relaxing to her. The time it requires is nominal compared to the enjoyment she gets from the relationship. I think that&#8217;s great, I totally respect her for it, it might be fun. I love that two mistresses, who have so much in common, can have such different lives. That goes for all of us! No wonder our many <a href="http://www.voxerotic.com">phone sex </a>callers can find the lady of their dreams on our sites, we have infinite variety.</p>
<p>Ms Julia, thank you so much. I adored being on your show and I hope you will join me when I have my own talkshoe experience. It&#8217;s a fun, intimate &#8220;just us girlfriends&#8221; experience that we just happened to share with a TON of listeners. And they seemed to be digging it too, which is great because, after all, that&#8217;s the POINT!! LOL.</p>
<p>Hugs,</p>
<p>Miss Tara</p>
<p>Remember to tune into <a href="http://www.cockradio.com/">www.cockradio.com</a> every week to hear me LIVE on Wednesdays and Thursdays at 6pm and Saturdays at 4pm, EST.</p>
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		<title>Sexual Secrets and the SpankMistress</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Nov 2007 04:36:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Men, are your sexual secrets really so deliciously dirty that you are afraid to tell even the finely trained and well experienced Mistresses of LDW? Are you afraid that telling me that you long to suck a big thick black cock is going to make me faint? Perhaps you picture me shrieking and hanging up [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Men, are your sexual secrets really so deliciously dirty that you are afraid to tell even the finely trained and well experienced <a href="http://www.pleaseyourmistress.com">Mistresses</a> of LDW? Are you afraid that telling me that you long to suck a big thick black cock is going to make me faint? Perhaps you picture me shrieking and hanging up in horror if you share your desire to be tied to my big soft bed with my wide white ribbons and teased sweetly and mercilessly until you have edged a dozen times and you are whimpering with the need to cum. Am I making fun of you? No, my darlin&#8217; chitlins, but I am teasing you a little for being such shy <a href="http://www.voxerotic.com">phone sex</a> wanker boys. I get more men calling me and being afraid not only to share their fantasies, but even where they found us, &#8220;on the internet&#8221;. ::gentle amused smile::</p>
<p>I&#8217;m NOT picking on you, sissies and <a href="http://www.cuckoldfantasies.com">cuckolds</a> and painsluts and stroker boys. I KNOW, I promise you I do, how hard it is to tell a perfect stranger your darkest, most intimate desires.Â  Especially if you have never called a phone sex service like ours, where we have so many experienced ladies who can understand and translate those fantasies into shuddering orgasms! But you have to understand, the fear you have that may come from being afraid to tell your lover isn&#8217;t needed here. We aren&#8217;t in that kind of a relationship, we aren&#8217;t going to judge you or laugh at you (unless you are into that ::wink::) or think there is something &#8220;wrong&#8221; with you for wanting to be naked on the floor with a feather in your ass while whistling Yankee Doodle and kissing our shoes now and then.Â  With us, you can be sure that the Mistress you contact WANTS you to have a great call, and if she doesn&#8217;t think she can provide it, she&#8217;s going to tell you who can. Gladly:)</p>
<p>So, no more shy John Boy Walston stammering, okay boys? Or, stammer if you like, it can be very endearing. But TELL us what you want and you&#8217;ll get it that much more easily. And if you ever have any doubt about a lady, drop her a nice respectful email outlining your fantasy and asking her if she would enjoy it too. Several men have done this with me and I find it to be both charming and so thoughtful.</p>
<p>Hugs,</p>
<p>Miss Tara</p>
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		<title>Perverted Elves and Pets I have known</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Oct 2007 15:20:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>There was a very special birthday this week, one that I was pleased to help celebrate with a joint spanking that left the birthday bear&#8217;s butt blushing a baboon red. I am speaking, of course, of the Perverted Elf, the MostHolyProphet, that sadfaced lil blue fuzzball, BillyBear. Who the hell is BillyBear, you may ask? [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There was a very special birthday this week, one that I was pleased to help celebrate with a joint spanking that left the birthday bear&#8217;s butt blushing a baboon red. I am speaking, of course, of the Perverted Elf, the MostHolyProphet, that sadfaced lil blue fuzzball, BillyBear. Who the hell is BillyBear, you may ask? He is one of Princess Grace&#8217;s prize pets! That&#8217;s right, le pet de Princesse Grace:) So why the hell am I blogging about the twisted genius behind BillyBear Labs Inc? I adore that little fucker.</p>
<p>Seriously. Now, since I started doing my radio show, I don&#8217;t hang out in the chatrooms as much as I was for a while, and I need to change that, because I had a blast. Part of the reason was my beloved Jemmie (even if she is now an alien preying mantis with cuhreepee feelers), a very sweet <a href="http://www.sissyschool.com">sissy</a> with aÂ heart of gold and a deliciously spankable bottom, plus bodacious bouncing evil bimbo boobs. Another part was Billy. Billy is&#8230;well&#8230;I&#8217;m not he can be defined as such, except that <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com">denial</a> is NEVER good for Billy. Grace warned me about that one night after he got mouthy with me and I told him to refrain from coming for the good of his soul. It&#8217;s a good thing he met Princess Grace, whom he calls and worships, because she seems to understand his twisted sexual needs. I tend to just haul him over my knee, shave the fur off his ass, and spank him when he gets on my nerves. And, of course, there is the Tazer of Terrible Tenderness for when he really gets rowdy. ::wink::</p>
<p>He has one of the vivid imaginations and talent for interesting writing that I&#8217;ve ever seen. The chatrooms would rock from the wild horseplay going on, as various regulars were drawn into our wild little world and found their own places in it. Ace, Ms Kate&#8217;s devotee and Wealthy Cookie Maven, Lucky Pet (who collects spare change or something, I never got that quite clear), Panty Sue, ultra pampered glamour girl of the set, and tonydshrimp, who came sizzling into the chatroom one night and whetted our appetites for more:) There have been long interweaving adventures lived out between <a href="http://billys-brain.blogspot.com/">Billy&#8217;s Blog</a> and <a href="http://littlebitchass.blogspot.com/">Jemmie&#8217;s Blog</a> and..well, everyone&#8217;s blog at one point! And their creativity has often sparked my own when I was afraid it had run dry, as well as making me laugh until the tears came at some of the antics, and comments, in the blogs.</p>
<p>So why does a professional <a href="http://www.voxerotic.com">phone sex</a> Mistress pay so much attention to someone who, admittedly, is fascinated and faithful to one of my coworkers? Well, for one, I consider him a friend, as I do many of our chatroom regulars. Billy, who transmogrified himself ala Calvin into a pudgy blue Carebear some time ago, has recommended me many times to new chatters wanting to learn about the Mistresses, but that isn&#8217;t the only reason I love to have him around. He and Jemmie and our other regulars help make the chatrooms a fun place for everyone to be. Their blogs can be wild and wacky, but the focus is usually the ladies of LDW, when it isn&#8217;t specifically Princess Grace, or each other. The COMMENTS are often the best part, and I recommend going back over the archives if you want some choice reading.</p>
<p>So, in my usual roundabout way, happy birthday, dear little Carebear. I hope your ass stops stinging from the enthusiastic beating the Spank Mistress and the Stroke Mistress gave you and that this year is filled with creativity and less pain than the last.</p>
<p>Hugs,</p>
<p>Miss Tara</p>
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		<title>Why be a slut?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Sluts. This used to be an insult! But among the majority of my callers, being called a slut makes them even more excited and ready to play. I talk to a lot of sissies, and when they want to play dress up, I always ask if they want to be dressed like a good girl, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sluts. This used to be an insult! But among the majority of my callers, being called a slut makes them even more excited and ready to play. I talk to a lot of <a href="http://www.sissyschool.com">sissies</a>, and when they want to play dress up, I always ask if they want to be dressed like a good girl, or like a little slut.Â You can guess, 99 percent of them are little whorish sluts at heart. They want sheer black seamed stockings or sexy fishnets, a scanty little silk scrap of panty, garter belts, sexy bras and the highest fuck me heels to be found. And the dresses should match, leathers cut and laced to show off every curve, or sheer little slipdresses with low necklines and skirts that barely cover their stocking tops! Total slut clothes. And while some of them want to be my delicate lesbian lovers, they still eventually want to be <a href="http://www.suckpatrol.com">sucking</a> my strap on and spreading their thighs to be penetrated by their Mistress. My all access <a href="http://www.voxerotic.com">phone sex</a> sluts are even more eager to get fucked, I take them to wild clubs full of hungry men just waiting to grind themselves against a sweet sissy ass before taking her to a sleazy back room for hot cock action. Or out on the stroll to make her Mistress some extra coin, swishing her moneymaker down the street, waiting to be used in a dirty alley by men looking for a quick fuck. Sluts indeed!</p>
<p>But why? Why is the fantasy of being used like a whore so exciting to these panty clad vixen wanna bes? It could be the idea of being so desirable when they are wearing their sexy feminine lingerie, dressed up to look like the glamour girls they have always admired. I&#8217;ll bet the feeling of being pursued, rather than always having to pursue, is a wonderful one. Plus, the curiosity about being female, feeling things from a woman&#8217;s point of view, being the one on her knees facing a big throbbing piece of man meat, or spreading her legs to learn about being penetrated and filled with cum&#8230;who wouldn&#8217;t wonder? Who wouldn&#8217;t want to be the fair maiden tossed on the bed to be ravished, at least one in their lives? Well, I&#8217;m sure some people don&#8217;t, but my sluts do! More power to them, may your bodices be ripped by large handsome rogues, my sissy girls and may their towers of manhood be throbbing:)</p>
<p>Hugs</p>
<p>Miss TaraÂ </p>
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