Sissies now, sissies seem to revel in all the attention that a good spanking gives them while in a crowd.  The spanking stings and they do get embarassed, but I think from the flirty twitches they give to their panties while pulling them up, and the way they flaunt their pink cheeks as I make them stand in the corner, most sissies like having all eyes on them. I can’t speak for everyone of course, but I have it on good authority… and I do seem to get a lot of volunteers  and wishful sighs when someone ELSE is getting spanked!!

So, if it seems like your beloved Spank Mistress has no mercy on you, and that I spend a great deal of time laughing at your pain and humiliation, it’s true! You don’t really have to do anything wrong, you might get spanked for no reason but my own entertainment at any moment. And, if you beg hard enough…you’ll never get spanked. Eager spank sluts are too easy!!

Hugs,

Miss Tara     call me at 800-356-6169, and don’t forget to check out all the audios, right here to show you what I                       sound like!!

LOL, what a thing to be known for. But it’s true. Guided Masturbation is a great thing, and we have a lot of wonderful Mistresses who can make their callers scream with joy when they finally get release, after a long slow aching stroke session.  Ms Vivian, for example,  is the Empress of Happy Endings. She loves to hear a man come and she knows just what buttons to push, being an experienced and very sexy MILF. I applaud these ladies and admire their skills. But I have other talents.

I like a man to suffer. I have no interest in guiding him down some wanker path, with elaborate techniques for handling himself. I want him to get to the edge and fight for control, to sit there with aching full balls and a swollen throbbing cock. I laugh when they beg and I coo with false sympathy when they cry. I advise them to stop stroking, then scold them when they don’t and end up in pain and weeping for release.  Those cold wet washcloths work wonders, sad little stroker sluts!!

Men know that if they want to speak to me again, they will play by my rules.  You can try to soften me up with tribute or presents, but it won’t matter. And as for those who ask  “what if I come accidently, Miss Tara?”, I have only one answer. If you do, there will be penalties. Of course, you can ignore them, but you’ll never have the same intense denial experience with me again. I don’t do calls with disobedient men.

So if you crave denial with a mistress who will never give in, no matter how much you beg, or cry, or pay, then call me.  You will never forget it.

Miss Tara   check out my audio page right here on the blog!!!   800-356-6169 for personal attention now

A few minutes later, the phone rang again and it was my beggar boy. Still hard, still hurting, but unable to resist returning for more punishment, he was back. And hard again in short (hee hee) order. He just couldn’t believe that I was so heartless, to laugh with genuine delight at his pain, to enjoy his begging and misery the way I did, with real amusement.  He called back a total of three times that morning and I had the most delightful time playing with his emotions and his poor overstimulated cock (and tear ducts!). I hope he calls back soon, this is my kind of phone sex call!!

Hugs,

Miss Tara Stop and check out my audios, right here on their own page!  And then call me at 800- 356-6169!

Well, now you and all your stroker chums have been rescued by the brilliant Headmistress Ally and her fabulous LDW Ladies! We are proud to introduce our very first PARTY LINE! You’ll be able to call in, at a very sweet price, and listen to your favourite mistress or mistresses talking about what they love best, SEX! And, you know, cookies maybe. Right now, it will be a listen only line, so you won’t have to say a word, just sit back and let those wonderful voices wash over you in a torrid wave of heat. Haven’t you always dreamed of that? And the idea that how many other guys are sitting there in the dark with you, unseen and unheard, listening and stroking – that’s a turn on for me too!  Each mistress will be planning her party, with a theme that you can check out and be ready for – we’ll always be posting information over at Mistress Madness so you can be up to date!

And, for those who can’t wait, there is going to be a FREE (YES, FREE! What other service gives away more free cool sexy fun than LDW??) try out of this new fabulous Party Line this Saturday night at 8pm. Check out Mistress Madness to learn all the details as they are posted.

Until next time, sweet and silly boys,

Miss Tara

This contest is so much fun, in fact, that I would love to brainstorm some other Sissy School events. I know a lot of what we do is for our stroker friends, and there is nothing wrong with that, because our little jerk off buddies are a treat to play with and those wankers are always eager for the next Strokeathon. But I’d love to find more active events for my pantygirls! Suggestions are welcome, the Beauty Pageant started because of a conversation I was having with a silly little pansy pet, so I am always willing to hear your ideas for things you would like to see and do on Sissy School. (I can’t promise that we will implement all of them, but I’ll LISTEN!). Until we get more going, I hope you all are visiting SISSYVILLE for those special assignments designed by your favourite mistresses to make you feel as girly as possible. Sissyville is maintained and updated by the lovely, talented Ms Carmen – who is herself an extremely popular Mistress.  So if this hits YOUR kink, or just intrigues you, I suggest you email her immediately for an appointment. Yes, an appointment! I SAID she was busy, little frilly sissy pants!

In the world of phone sex, there are all kinds of interesting fantasies, and I enjoy a lot of them. I love to read the blogs of other mistresses and sometimes I’m a little envious when I read about a really intriguing or fun sounding call they had, just because I think I would have had fun with it too ::wink::  I am NOT grudging my fellow mistresses their callers, they are fabulous women and their callers are loyal and adoring because those ladies deserve it. We have a new site opening soon and it just amazed the heck out of me when I first learned that this was a legit fetish – being ignored.  Calling someone to have her ignore you because you are so unworthy of her attention, even when paying. I’m honestly fascinated and have loved learning more about it, LOL, there is something that feels so RIGHT about it. Hmmm, maybe the Spankmistress really does have that mean streak that likes to see men suffer:)

Hugs

Miss Tara

Remember to listen to me every week on www.cockradio.com, every Wednesday and Thursday at 6pm and Saturdays at 4pm est. Join me at www.communitykink.com to participate in the show!!

I think my blog should be about me, frankly. I don’t know that men are really interesting in reading about other guys, for the most part. But occasionally, I talk to someone who just is so accessible, who has a fantasy that I think will really intrigue the people who read the blog, because they represent the fantasy of a lot of people who may not have had the courage to pick up the phone or visit our chatrooms yet. And no, I’m not saying that they have common or ordinary fantasies. But there are classic themes, if you will, and some of my calls, especially with people I’ve spoken with frequently, make those theme POP!! So, I share a really frilly adorable sissy, or a man who loves to be forced into submitting to me (and his own subbie nature!)…I even stole the nickname of a faithful tiny dicked frequenter of my radio show and wrote a story all about a pindicked piggie finding his place in our world.:)

In the end, I write about my life. Right now, my callers, my fellow Mistresses, and our chatters are a big part of that life.  So when you see the occasional wacky posting that fits into a bizzare blogging story happening on several blogs, or I stop to wish a happy birthday, or even to get a little sentimental, bear with me:) As I often say, I’m not a doll, wind her up and she humiliates little dicks and makes men wear panties. I’m a real woman, and my blog is going to reflect that. I’ve been getting such wonderful compliments lately, THANK YOU FOR READING! And Keep Reading and commenting, OKAY?

Hugs,

Miss Tara

 

 

Coming to work with Ms Ally helped me understand just what an amazingly wide world phone fantasy was. Her first two sites, Cock Control and Sissy School, became the standard by which other femdom sites were measured. As she concentrated on bringing more of the lesser known fantasies to our group of ladies, I realized that I was learning again, learning facts and skills that excited me! You were my best teachers, sharing your cuckold and humiliation fantasies with me so generously. There are tons of places to look up facts, but hearing what excites a man in his own panting voice…I never can forget hearing that! You taught me the little things that books and websites can never get right, and you showed me when I was wrong, sometimes by moving along to another lady. It’s a harsh schooling,perhaps, but you are for the most part, real gentlemen who don’t want to hurt anyone’s feeling by saying “Mistress, when I beg to come… Don’t let me!!” LOL, Miss Tara learned the lesson about boy cummies REAL well, didn’t she? ::wink::

Doing what I do offers me more learning, more experience in working with people, more chances to learn different computer skills, and even more opportunities to travel than any straight job I ever held. I have always been a trustworthy loyal person, but now I’m trusted with the scariest of secrets, the sexual yearnings that people hold deepest in their hearts, and I cherish that. I’ve grown stronger, more confident, and more assertive, thanks to the strong confident women I am surrounded with in my virtual world. I would never trade you, my callers and teachers and friends and pets, for any desk job and 401k plan the “real world” has to offer. Keep teaching me, I’ll keep learning. Keep calling, and I’ll keep your secrets, I’ll dress you up, I’ll bust your balls and I’ll value everything you share with me.

hugs,

Miss Tara

But I digress. The other important side of this debate is what the men think. Truly, though you might not see that often in my blog;) Some men love the chastity devices. Being locked up hits their kink in a way that just being denied doesn’t. They want their Mistress to hold their keys, or get her daily picture of his locked cock with its dated plastic lock unopened. Her direct interest in his state of denial is part of the fun and sexiness.  Other men get off on an indifferent Mistress. One, like me again, who couldn’t care less about boy cummies. I’ve given my orders and I expect them to be obeyed with no fussing, no whining and without me having to deal with it again. It’s a way to display how little your pathetic dicklet, and your whimpering man’s need for release, means to me. This is also incredible arousing, I’ve been told.

The issue won’t be solved here. There are so many ways to keep a man in chastity, and between us, the Cock Mistresses know most of them. We each have our own style and our ways of commanding the continued orgasm denial in those callers who love it. Even when they are begging and pleading for release, I think most of us take great pleasure in denying them what they crave most. Especially when they cry!!!

hugs,

Miss Tara

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