The Spankmistress Moving Forward

So, there you go, I said I missed spanking and so I’ve done something about it. I got off my virtual ass and went back into the chatrooms to administer some delicious corporal punishment to deserving little cheeky chatters. It felt wonderful to get out the old paddle, to see the spankees go from teasing to topped. I love ordering them to come to me, take down their pants or panties, and then… mmm, that yummy expanse of firm cheekage, trembling when I tap it, quivering under my SPANKITYSPANKSPANK whacks with the paddle or my hand. Feeling the skin warm under my hand, watching it redden and hearing the delightful exclamations of pain or pleas for mercy. It’s exciting!! Ah yes, I’ve missed spanking plump cheeked Jemmie and I’ve made up for that. I spanked Magnus too, and I might break down and spank Pothead one of these nights, I’m sure he has a nice corn chip filled out boy’s butt. And BillyBear now, shaving off his fur and tanning his ass until it glows like a baboon’s backside is the most fun!

Phone sex has led me to the most amazing interests. Those of you who know me have read about my fascination with Real Dolls. Well, there is a special on the BBC called Love Me, Love My Doll, and I tell you what, I am mostly a live and let live kind of gal. I love these Dolls and I can totally understand getting one and just being amazed with it. But there was one guy on this documentary that just SCREAMED serial killer/spree killer.  He likes his two Dolls, but has such contempt for real women, and for humanity in general, that it’s frightening. He keeps guns and weapons at home, where he lives in a rural area with just his two Dolls.  I watch him with them and I think, well maybe these two perfect submissive sexual companions are keeping him from kidnapping and torturing some real woman in the hopes of turning her into what they already are.  Again, he is THE EXCEPTION! I’ve watched a lot of shows and interviews about these Dolls, I’ve spent a lot of time on the various Real Doll forums, and like the men that call us, most of the owners seem perfectly down to earth and in touch with reality. Maybe that’s why seeing the documentarian focus on this guy seems so jarring and cheap. Sure, show the guy who is sure to upset people.

And I totally get why it makes me angry. That is how many journalists and writers slant their pieces about phone sex and the sex industry in general. Yes, there are negative aspects of any industry, but because sex is involved, it is assumed that there are NO positives. So I just I’ve always sought out positives. I loved reading about how Sidney Biddle Barrows ran her escort service in Mayflower Madam. I thought Adam Glassner was a sweetie and a decent guy when Showtime introduced Family Business, about his dual life as Adam, single dad and loving son and Seymore Butts-gonzo pornographer/artist/distributor. And I think offering ladies who can discuss humiliation, orgasm denial, and a score of other fetish fantasies with knowledge, understanding and a good sense of humor is VERY positive.

::stepping down of the soapbox::  Tell me what YOU think, please!!

Hugs,

Miss Tara