Indulgence is a wonderful word. There are so many ways to indulge, and I love most of them! Some are obvious, like a box of Godiva truffles or a bottle of my favourite perfume. Time can be an indulgence, when I deliberately shut off my phone no matter what, because I have plans with a friend and those plans are important to me. Dinner out with them, watching a movie upstairs, or driving around in the rain running little errands like we did yesterday, it made me so happy. An indulgence doesn’t have to be expensive! One of the things I love most in this life is the pleasure of having a new book to read, and when somone picks out a few books from my wishlist as a surprise – I just go nuts:) Better than a big old diamond ring, I tell you. (should I admit that? Will the women of the world disown me? Alas, tis true and they’ll have to live with it!) A lot of people would consider my cleaning lady, the Incredible Debbie, an indulgence, but she’s really a necessity. The indulgence comes in when I pull back the covers and see those nice fresh smooth sheets- they are cool and soft from many washings and I just snuggle in to enjoy them. Simple indulgences are sometimes the nicest ones of all.
I realize that calling a phone sex line can be a major indulgence for many men. We all have our bills to pay and certain things feel like luxuries, instead of neccessities. But I’ll give you my take on it and this is sincere. When things are hard in the world, so to speak, that is when we need SOME of our familiar comforts most! The stress relief of a good stern orgasm denial session or a guided masturbation call can make all the difference when someone is feeling the pressure that can be life nowadays. Having a chance to break out the panties and high heels and indulge in some sissy girl talk can turn a week that is just demanding too much into one that is easier to handle. I’m on a messageboard with some really great women and we were discussing jobs and work and the economy – one of the women said something really smart. She said, “When things are bad, that little thing that makes us feel good becomes even more important, even if it is only a cigarette, a candy bar or a quick phone sex call”. For me, when I feel really bad, when what I call “the malaise” is upon me, I head for a hot bath with aromatherapy oils, and I soak for HOURS.
So, indulgences are not bad things, no matter what people tell you. That little luxury may be what is keeping you sane in a crazy world!! So give yourself permission to call the Mistress of your choice and to enjoy the fuck out of that call. That is an order directly from the Spank Mistress!!
Hugs,
Miss Tara
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