The Spankmistress on TalkShoe

And already our new toys are proving to be a lot of fun.  I had the privilege of being a guest on Ms Julia’s show this evening and we had such an amazing time. We talked for an hour and it just flew by, I could have talked with her for hours. There was such a wonderful back and forth with both her and our chatters in the chatroom that goes with talkshoe, with KinkTalkRadio as we call it. LOL, we were tossing ideas around the other night and I dubbed us KKTR, the Voice of LDW on the Internet. You do know that we are bent on world domination, starting with YOUR cock, right? :wicked smile:  So anyway, Ms Julia and I have history which made this even more fun. She and I spent a really great afternoon together last summer while on vacation in Florida, it turned out that we have very similar interests in books, we both read incessantly and we love to THINK about what we do here. So I knew we’d have some interesting things to discuss, I only hoped that our chatters would find them interesting as well. Of course, Ms Julia comes through with a topic like “Does having a submissive fetish make dating harder? Do you think you should only date from sites like collarme.com? Do you have a responsibility to tell a potential partner who doesn’t have an idea about your fetish that you are into being dominated right from the start?” It was a fascinating topic. We also talked about living the lifestyle as a domme, and the idea that most of our callers were not out there living their particular kink twenty four/seven, but that we, due to the calls and chatting/blogging/radio shows, actually spend more time living with fetishes. One of my favourite ideas, one that comes up whenever I mention my cleaning lady, is about having a sissy maid in person. My whole thing is that no matter how sincerely someone pledges that they only want to serve you, in any relationship both partners must be getting something out of it. A maid or slave would require supervision, instruction, punishment (especially if they were INTO being punished, because I’d have to find whatever they did wrong to earn it) and basically a hell of a lot more time than I have to give right now. I write my cleaning lady a check, leave it on the fridge and if I need to be gone, she has a key. Again, I do not doubt that anyone who offers MEANS that they want to serve me with all sincerity, but for me it wouldn’t work. Being able to leave the house and know that it taken care of is relaxing to me. Now Ms Julia has a houseboy, and having him take care of everything and pamper her is relaxing to her. The time it requires is nominal compared to the enjoyment she gets from the relationship. I think that’s great, I totally respect her for it, it might be fun. I love that two mistresses, who have so much in common, can have such different lives. That goes for all of us! No wonder our many phone sex callers can find the lady of their dreams on our sites, we have infinite variety.

Ms Julia, thank you so much. I adored being on your show and I hope you will join me when I have my own talkshoe experience. It’s a fun, intimate “just us girlfriends” experience that we just happened to share with a TON of listeners. And they seemed to be digging it too, which is great because, after all, that’s the POINT!! LOL.

Hugs,

Miss Tara

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