Boy ,do I get asked about this one a lot! Spankmistress Tara, what is a real man? How do you define a real man? Is it possible for a little sissy (giggle), or a guy with a little dick to ever be a real man? And I think we’ve all heard the standard answers- Hell, no! A Real Man doesn’t wear panties or makeup, a Real Man never sucks dick or gets fucked in the ass, a Real Man has a cock the size of an anaconda and He is always ready and eager to perform. Real Men can do any household repair, they know all about cars and they are endlessly fascinated by sports. I’ve gotta say, it must be exhausting being in a relationship with a Real Man, and it can’t be too easy to be one either.
So sayth the standard party line. I say there are different definiations of Real Men that have nothing to do with cock, sports, or even panties. Warning: these ideas may alter your fantasies in some way, or make you think. You have been warned! If you are talking about sheer courage as a Manly attribute, how much courage does it take to defy the worldly “norm” and pull on a pair of women’s panties for the first time? To dare to explore the unfamiliar world of make up and high heeled shoes and those damned stockings that rip everytime you poke them with a toe? To try and learn the rituals that many women complete on automatic pilot – and then GO OUT! Being a sissy isn’t always the safest thing in the world, even in this country, there are too many people insisting that their way is the only way. Being different can lead to humilation, physical pain and sometimes even death. A so called Real Man doesn’t risk any of these things just for being himself.
Courage, determination, a strong sense of self are traditional attributes of the Real Man. I would like to suggest a few that should be on the top ten list as well. Compassion, empathy, intelligence, kindness and a keen sense of humor go a long way toward making a man into a Real Man in my eyes. The rest, well, it’s all just prettying things up in the eye of the beholder!! (wink)
Hugs,
Miss Tara
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