Paging Dr Spankmistress...

Sometimes I feel like the plastic surgeons on Nip/Tuck, as they interview a new patient. The first question they always ask is “What don’t you like about yourself?” The first question I usually ask, outside of polite chitchat, is “what would you like to talk about today?”. And sometimes it’s just as hard to pinpoint what my caller wants as it is for a patient to define what they want to change. Or harder, sexual secrets are harder to share sometimes.

What I find fun is that most of my calls don’t have a single theme. People might find our sites with their different phone sex niches, but they seldom can be pigeonholed (not that we discuss THAT topic-fans self) into just one category, like produce. A caller might have a small penis, love to see his girlfriend taking multiple big dicks while he watches, getting off on how humiliating to see her pleasured by those studs in a way he could never accomplish. But he is also getting off on watching those huge cocks and imagining his girl making him suck them, one after the other, to prove his devotion to her.  And maybe he sees himself wearing dainty silky panties to cover his teeny weenie while being a fucktoy for his Mistress and her men. So, those are several different “specialties” there, cuckolding and humilation, forced cocksucking and even a little feminization- all in one fantasy! He might not have been able to articulate all of that at once, but it comes out, so to speak. A little talk, a little encouragement, and a good time is had by all!

So, phone sex IS different from plastic surgery. You don’t HAVE to be able to define everything you want right off, although you don’t have to be afraid to hit the highlights of what you are looking for. Don’t use the catchphrases, say what it means to you! I get a lot more from a man who tells me he wants me to dress him up in slutty lingerie and make him up to look like a whore, and then put him out on the street walking a beat, then someone who wants me to make them a girl. The more specific you CAN be, the more detailed and wonderful your fantasy WILL be, at least with the Spankmistress;)

hugs,

Miss Tara