Getting Caught Up

And I don’t mean accomplishing your errands, like one of those efficient types who starts Christmas shopping Dec 26th. I mean, getting caught up in your current interest, hobby or fantasy. Have you ever been talking about your favourite subject, like phone sex, and then suddenly realized that you were the only one paying attention to you? How embarassing!! Or you are surrounded by a sea of polite, bored faces trying hard not to laugh in your face and be rude? Yes, it has even happened to me, little chitlins, to someone as fascinating as your Miss Tara. And I was horrified to realize I was being a boor, and a rude one at that.

Worse, however, are the ones who don’t care. They could rattle on and on about themselves and their interests forever and never even stop talking long enough to realize that they ARE rude. Sometimes we do see this happening in the chatrooms, mostly because one of our new guests has just found us and is so exciting to have a place where he can talk about his fetish. Totally understandable. But, if a mistress tries to gently nudge you to a new topic sometimes, or doesn’t volunteer to play peekaboo/take part in acting out your fetish, please  don’t be offended. It isn’t that you aren’t liked or shouldn’t post, its just that we have so MANY different fetishes and desires in the chatrooms, we have to try and be considerate of everyone’s needs. Unless it is a themed radio show or hosted chat, discussing nothing but lingerie in mind numbing detail will alienate everyone but the one person whose fetish that is. If you want my undivided attention, focusing on nothing but you and your needs, you can certainly have it, anytime you want!! Just call and I’m all yours!!

Like I said, I’ve been known to get a grand idea and underwhelm a crowd with it too, so I do know how it feels. In a regular chat, none of the ladies are going to try and make a chatter feel like a dumbass for being slightly obsessed with cuckolding or chastity unless he insists on ignoring her gentle hints to broaden his or her horizons and join in! (and that can apply to two chatters having a private conversation in the middle of a chat to whom no one else is admitted.) Then the Spankmistress might have to get her pretty pink paddle out and administer a firm reminder on your firm backside!! LOL:)

Hugs,

Miss Tara