Chastity device or not? Are cock locks really necessary to enforce chastity on a man who has given his orgasms over to you? This is a fun question that I like debating with other mistresses. Some swear by their CB3000 or 5000s, they love the idea of holding the physical key to a man’s pleasure. Others, like me, prefer self control on the part of their little pets. If one of my boys can’t maintain himself after being trained, then I haven’t really suceeded with him. I want him to be suffering voluntarily, knowing that he could relieve that tension anytime but won’t, because of my control over him. Although, I confess, I’ve had a lot of fun teasing Jemmie about convincing Princess Grace to send me Jemmie’s keys, which I plan to dip in silver and make into earrings. neener neener neener, Jemmie, you alien preying mantis bimbo boobed chastity pet!!!
But I digress. The other important side of this debate is what the men think. Truly, though you might not see that often in my blog;) Some men love the chastity devices. Being locked up hits their kink in a way that just being denied doesn’t. They want their Mistress to hold their keys, or get her daily picture of his locked cock with its dated plastic lock unopened. Her direct interest in his state of denial is part of the fun and sexiness. Other men get off on an indifferent Mistress. One, like me again, who couldn’t care less about boy cummies. I’ve given my orders and I expect them to be obeyed with no fussing, no whining and without me having to deal with it again. It’s a way to display how little your pathetic dicklet, and your whimpering man’s need for release, means to me. This is also incredible arousing, I’ve been told.
The issue won’t be solved here. There are so many ways to keep a man in chastity, and between us, the Cock Mistresses know most of them. We each have our own style and our ways of commanding the continued orgasm denial in those callers who love it. Even when they are begging and pleading for release, I think most of us take great pleasure in denying them what they crave most. Especially when they cry!!!
hugs,
Miss Tara
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I just wanted to add a few thoughts about the cage vs no-cage discussion.
::Comes towards Miss Tara with creepy feelers fully extended::
I’m sure that no chastity pet is the same, and a lot depends on what particular chastity device is being worn, but I wouldn’t say that just because I’m in a cage means that it makes it any easier or doesn’t require self control on my part.
If I was in a Neosteel or similar inescapable device, I would agree that self control would pretty much be irrelevant. But in a CB-2000 or similar device, it would be relatively easy for me to pull out from the back and stroke off if I wanted to. There are 2 reasons why I don’t do that. The most obvious reason is that I would be cheating and defeating the purpose of wearing it, and the second reason is that there’s a chance of having a nut pull through the rings during the stroking, which is not a good thing. As far as self control goes, it takes every bit of self control that I have, not to cut the lockpin or just break the damn thing just to get it off.
Besides the no-cummies effect, wearing the cage has other drawbacks that “honor-system” denial boys don’t have to deal with. How about the discomfort of a pinched nut when you move wrong? How about the constant fear of a nut pulling out? How about always having to sit to pee and then needing to wash everything afterwards? How about the nagging feeling that there is always something hanging onto you “down there” that never goes away? What about security inspections when you need to travel?
And so I maintain that between the discomforts, inconveniences, and need for self control, it’s an even greater sacrifice to your Mistress to stay locked into a cage for Her, as opposed to just telling Her that you’ve been good and not cumming.
That sacrifice to my Mistress is what gets me off and keeps me inside. Contrary to what people may think, I’m not doing this for the attention, even though attention is nice once in awhile.
Just my 2 cents!
little bitchass
::feeley feeley feeley::
I am a self discipline freak, therefore i am totally against chastity devices. Having to bite your hands or to keep them occupied in order not to touch yourself is just as hard as being locked in a cage, i think. For me it’s all about discipline: showing composure, control of yourself, ability to understand and comply orders with no need to repeat, maximum focus.
I also work out 3 to 7 times a week, therefore i can’t wear anything that could injure myself
EEEEEEEKKKK!!!! ::seriously considers using the Tazer of Terrible Tenderness on Jem’s cuhreepee feelers:: Don’t you be feeleying ME, you alien preying mantis bimbo with the large evil knockers!! Now, where was I, besides fleeing in fear and disgust?
Oh yes, Jemmie, thank you for sharing life inside a cage! To be honest, I really had no idea about most of those details and I do agree that locking oneself into one and staying there takes a great deal of sacrifice and control. I certainly never intended to put our cage wearing callers, or the cage assigning Mistresses, down in any way:)
For the record, I LOVE comments of all kinds in my blog. Bimbo boobs of evil here knows that I value all opinions, the ones that offer a different viewpoint AND the ones that tell me I rock:) Because, you know, I do totally rock. ::grin::
Hugs,
Miss Tara
Noooooooo! Not the T of TT!
::retracts feelers in a big freaking hurry::
Awwwww.. Miss Tara, You DO rock, and Your viewpoint is one that I certainly do respect! I wasn’t disagreeing with what You said, because having the self-control to maintain your “no cummies” for your Mistress (without a cage) when you know you could easily fake it is hard too! I was just pointing out that there are lots of every day things that go into wearing a cage that never seem to get any consideration when the whole self-control issue is being debated.
I didn’t take anything of what You said as a putdown, because I know that’s not Your style!
Keep up the great blogging! You can put the Tazer down now…. ::cringe::
little bitchass